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    Happy Fathers Day Images With Quotes 2018

    Happy Fathers Day Images Quotes

    June 17, Sunday – Father’s Day 2018

     

    It is celebrated: All over the world
    Meaning: gratitude to fathers; role of the father in the development of the child as a person
    Traditions: rewarding with an honorary badge “For fidelity to the father’s duty”, bonus; festival PAPA FEST; forums, lectures, discussions, seminars; collection of money for low-income families and single dads.

    International Father’s Day Celebration:

    The Feast of the Fathers is an event with a long history, it was celebrated for a long time without official decrees. The celebration does not have a specific date to which it would be tied. In many countries, for example the USA, Canada, Venezuela, Argentina, France, Greece, Ireland, it is customary to celebrate Father’s Day on the third Sunday of June. But a number of states celebrate and honor the popes on completely different dates. The first region of Russia, which established the Fathers Day, was the Volgograd region, which appointed the holiday on November 1. New Zealand and Australia classified the date of the holiday on the second Sunday in August. Thailand hosts celebrations on December 5. In Germany, the holiday was legally justified in 1936 and falls on celebrations for the Ascension of the Lord. Finland, Estonia and Sweden congratulate the popes on the second Sunday in November. Spanish,

    History of the Father’s Day:

    The idea to celebrate the day in which the fathers were honored, visited in the distant 1909, Sonora Louise Smart Dodd. She attended the church service on the occasion of Mother’s Day. The American wanted to note the efforts of her father. He heroically raised six children to his feet after his wife was killed during the last birth. As an adult woman, Dodd understood the efforts of her dad to grow them all on her farm.

    Sonora Dodd decided to make a petition, and then submitted it to the city authorities, who took interest in the idea with interest. Already in 1910, the first celebration in honor of the fathers in the streets of the hometown of Sonora Dodd was held. Quite quickly, the idea of ​​the holiday was picked up across the country. The American initiative was supported by US President Calvin Coolidge in 1924, and in 1956 the US Congress adopted a resolution that said that it was necessary to establish a holiday at the state level.

    But things dragged on. Despite the signing by Lindon Johnson, the next president of the country, the corresponding proclamation, the male Congressional staff, fearing to be perverted by prejudice, did not give his approval. Only in 1972 Richard Nixon gave the Father’s Day official status.

    Touching Father’s Day Quotes That Sum Up What It’s Like to Be a Dad

    These words of wisdom will bring a tear to Dad’s eye.

    Fathers day Inspirational Quotes 2018

     

    “A good father is one of the most unsung, unpraised, unnoticed, and yet one of the most valuable assets in our society.”

    -Billy Graham

    “When my father didn’t have my hand, he had my back.”

    -Linda Poindexter

    “The heart of a father is the masterpiece of nature.”

    -Antoine Francois Prevost

    “A father is the one friend upon whom we can always rely.”

    -Emile Gaboriau

    “One father is more than a hundred schoolmasters.”

    -George Herbert

     

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    All About Teething in Toddlers Guide 2018 with Infographic

    Toddlers teething problems and remedies

    Timing of teething can characterize both the biological and the passport age of the toddler. The process and timing of dentition depends not only on the inherited genetic parameters, that is, how they erupted in Mom and Dad, and even in their ancestors in the seventh generation. But the timing of teething can be influenced by external and internal factors. For example: climatic conditions, the nature of nutrition, the quality of drinking water and others. In this regard, in different regions the timing of eruption of permanent teeth fluctuate. The hotter the climate. That usually the teeth erupt before. Although this is also not an axiom.



     Milk teeth usually begin to erupt in 6-8 months . His first birthday year-old baby, as a rule, celebrates, having in his mouth four upper and lower incisors. By the age of two, first molar molars and fangs erupt. The second molar molars appear six months later. The full formation of the dairy dentition usually ends in three years. All in all, by the age of three, the child has to grow all 20 milk teeth.

    What to do if by 9 months your child has not cut through a single tooth?

    First of all, do not worry early. The dentists consider it quite natural to delay the eruption of temporary teeth within 6 months. In this case, boys tend to erupt their teeth later than girls.

    Begin by carefully examining the toddler’s gums: it is very likely that they look swollen and reddened, or, on the contrary, the gum is thin and pale, and underneath it is probed and even the tooth can be seen. In order to speed up teething, buy special ring toys – stimulators of teething. Useful and easy massage of the gums with a clean finger or a cold teaspoon. Pressure on the gum facilitates and accelerates teething, and cold reduces discomfort.

    Violation of the timing of teething can be caused by a general growth retardation against a background of a number of diseases of the toddler, primarily in rickets. Ask your pediatrician: perhaps your baby needs vitamins or calcium supplements to maintain normal mineral metabolism.

    In rare cases, toddlers have an adentia – the absence of teeth rudiments. So if the baby is already over a year old, and his teeth have not yet begun to erupt, it is worth asking for a consultation with a dentist. Check the presence of dental germs with an X-ray. X-ray irradiation can be unsafe for the child’s body, so this study should be carried out only if necessary and at the doctor’s prescription. Today, there is an opportunity to reduce the harmful effect of X-rays, if you take a picture using a radiovisiograph. Such equipment is usually available in every modernly equipped dental clinic.

    Symptoms of teething in Toddler

    How to determine that the child has already cut the first tooth?

    Symptoms of eruption of the first teeth in a child are reddened, inflamed gums, burning cheeks and, perhaps, a swollen white ball, from which the tooth is about to appear. True, he can make himself wait. Before being outside, the tooth must first pass through the bone tissue that surrounds it, and then through the mucous membrane of the gum.  Is it necessary to somehow help the eruption of the tooth?  Do not interfere with the natural course of events, because nature has provided that the teeth of children are born on their own, without special efforts from outside and additional devices. Do not irritate the toddler’s gums by scratching them with a piece of sugar or a spoon handle, as they did before. So you can damage tender baby teeth and put the infection in the jaw bone. Be careful with bread, bread crusts, bagels:

    At the person during a life there is a change of 20 teeth one time, and the remaining 8-12 teeth do not change, they cut through initially constant (radical).

    Teething

    The first (medial) lower incisors – 6-9 months.
    The first (medial) upper incisors – 7-10 months.
    The second (lateral) upper incisors – 9-12 months.
    The second (lateral) lower incisors – 9-12 months.
    The first upper molars are 12-18 months old.
    The first lower molars are 13-19 months old.
    Upper canines – 16-20 months.
    Lower fangs – 17-22 months.
    The second lower molars are 20-33 months old.
    The second upper molars are 24-36 months old.

    These tables are approximate. According to statistics, the first tooth in modern babies appears on average only in 8 and a half months. Thus, the timing of the eruption of the remaining teeth is shifted. Dentists believe that the later the first tooth was cut, the later the dentition will drop out and this is undoubtedly good. However, before the year the baby should still have at least one tooth, otherwise one should look for the causes in any diseases, for example, in rickets. The first tooth can go in pairs, so is the case with subsequent teeth. It happens that the crumbs immediately go to 4 teeth. Naturally, such a “massive” growth of teeth affects the timing of eruption. Uncertainly, the situation with the order of the appearance of teeth, you can not influence this, so “do not worry in vain” because everything goes as planned by nature.

    Up to three years, the toddler is pricked by all the milk teeth, which by the age of 5 start to be gradually replaced by permanent teeth.

    Total milk teeth 20: 4 incisors (4 central teeth), 2 canines (third from the center or “eye”) and 4 molars (fourth and fifth from the center “chewing” teeth) are located on each jaw.
    An adult has 28-32 permanent teeth: 4 jaws, 2 canines, 4 premolars and 4-6 molars are located on each jaw. The development of the third molar (“wisdom tooth”) may not occur at all, with the congenital adentia of the third molars, which is also considered the norm. Another situation is possible: the tooth of “wisdom” is laid in the thickness of the jaw, but it never erupts because of an incorrect position or lack of space in the jaw. This situation is very common.

    After the eruption of all milk teeth between them, there are no tremors (crevices, gaps), which is the norm. But with the growth of the jaw before the change of milk teeth on permanent should appear the gaps between the milk teeth. This process is necessary, since the  permanent teeth are larger in size than the milk ones and if gaps are not formed, the permanent teeth do not fit into the jaws and the child receives “curved” permanent teeth.   In parallel with the formation of gaps between temporary teeth, there is a “resorption” of the roots of the milk teeth, after which the teeth alternately loosen and fall out. Now there is even a fashion to buy a box of gold or silver to store the first teeth.

    There is no general opinion about the normal timing of dentition, as the scientific studies of different authors were conducted in different regions and in different years of the past and our century.
    If it hurts …

     Teething can be accompanied by increased excitability: the child becomes restless, moody, often waking up at night with tears, may refuse to eat.  At the same time, the kid drags any object into his mouth, as chewing reduces itching of irritated gums. Sharply increased secretion of saliva, which, emerging from the mouth, can cause skin irritation. Often on the cheek from the erupting tooth appears a limited area of ​​redness or rash. The temperature at the child can rise up to subfebrile values ​​(within 37,8 °). However, fever does not necessarily accompany teething.

     Against the background of teething can develop this or that infection. Therefore, if the child has symptoms such as nausea, vomiting, earache, diarrhea, cough, rash, persistent loss of appetite or fever, you should consult your doctor. 

    What means soften the pain? The simplest is cold. Coldness relieves pain and reduces swelling. If this does not help, you can use a dental gel or ointment containing anti-inflammatory and anesthetic agents to lubricate the gums. If necessary, you can give the child an anesthetic drug. Use any medication should only be prescribed by a doctor.
    Here are the frequent questions that anxious moms ask.

     

     

    What should I do if my teeth break at the wrong time?

    To do nothing. There is no clear concept of “late erupted”, or rather “the timing of teething” is a relative common time, rather than strict data. These terms are determined by average values ​​and depend on neonatal (as passed birth) indicators, physical constitution, individual characteristics of the baby, etc. So, no matter what time period the teeth are cut, this is the time limit for this child. By the way, the same applies to the eruption of permanent teeth and wisdom teeth. Only in rare cases of explicit pathology, the timing of eruption can indeed be abnormal.

    The later your teeth break through – so they are healthier? Unfortunately, this is not so – the timing of dentition and their “quality” are not connected in any way.

    What calming drugs can I use in children with teething?

    Do these drugs affect the eruption process? No, these drugs do not affect the eruption process in any way. They all underwent clinical approbation and naturally have no side effects. The only restriction is allergic children, but for them there is a calming remedy – Dr. Baby. Almost all such gels contain lidocaine and inert fillers (menthol for cooling, flavoring and astringents). I can advise the following drugs:

    Dentinox
    Calgel – it is sweet, you should not use it for diathesis.
    The kamistad is very effective, but it should be applied moderately.
    Mundizal
    Holyisal
    “Solcoseryl” dental paste (for external use, do not mix) is especially effective if there are bleeding wounds or painful sores.
    Dr. Babie – with allergies to lidocaine

    How often can you apply soothing gels?

    Soothing gels do not need to be applied to a particular regimen (such as antibiotics). It hurts – you smear, it does not hurt – you do not smear. But especially do not get carried away, more 3-4 times a day and do not use more than 3 days in a row.

    How to speed up teething?

    Medically in any way. A proven method for years is soft gum massage. With a clean finger, gently massage the gum and the baby will feel better, and the tooth will erupt a little faster. Just do not press hard, do not hurt. Usually give the child a cold spoon to suck, but you can still hold a little pacifier in the refrigerator and give the baby. There are special teethers with a cooling liquid. You put it in the refrigerator. Then give the child to chew. But do not overdo it.

    Can there be a smell from the mouth when teeth are erupted and why is it related?

    When teething, the mucosa partially decomposes (lysis). An active role in this play enzymes of saliva. As you know, the amount of saliva with teething increases. This is connected with the process of lysis. In this case, the viscosity, color and smell of saliva can really change. In addition, saliva contains weak antibacterial substances that prevent infection of the wound that forms when the tooth is erupted. Their active influence can also change the normal properties of saliva. Even in the oral cavity gets a certain amount of blood, the decomposition of which can also occur sourish (metalic) odor.

    What should I do if the temperature rises sharply during

    teething?

    In principle, a slight increase in temperature with teething is normal. But it will not be 39-40. With eruption, this does not happen.
    Attention: teething should not cause severe heat, diarrhea, vomiting, loss of appetite, cramps and suffocation. If these symptoms occur, even if it seems to you that they are associated with the teeth, consult a doctor. Also, it is not recommended to give the child an antipyretic and anesthetic (syrup, candles) without consulting a doctor and at a body temperature below 38.5 ° C.

    How do children distinguish between a rise in temperature during teething from a rise in temperature for some other reason? How long does it take to keep a fever with teething?

    All individually, but mostly hyperthermia and diarrhea are only secondary signs of teething. For a very small organism, this is a serious physiological fracture. Now most pediatricians and physiologists admit that a fever with teething is probably a reaction to inflammation of the oral mucosa. At the exit of the teeth, irrigation is formed, often a wound (from friction and due to lysis), not infrequently the wound becomes infected. So hyperthermia is caused not by the mechanism of tooth formation, but by side effects. One of the arguments in favor of this opinion is that with the eruption of permanent teeth,

    The emergence of symptoms of colds and diarrhea due to a dramatic change in diet and diet, permanent foreign objects in the mouth and a violation of microflora, as well as weakening local immunity in the nasopharynx.
    Hence, it can be concluded that if the fever and liquid stool last too long (more than 72 hours), then the reason is likely not really in teething.

    Possible features of teeth in children during the teething stage:

    widening of the spaces between the teeth. It can reflect the increased growth of the jaws and in the transition period from milk teeth to permanent it is regarded as a normal condition. A wide gap between the anterior incisors on the upper jaw is usually associated with a deep frenum of the upper jaw. The tactician for observing and treating a wide gap between the teeth is determined by an orthodontist.

    Blackish edging on the neck of the tooth can be with the use of soluble iron preparations or a chronic inflammatory process (sedimentation of bacteria of the leptotrichia group);

    Yellowish-brown staining of teeth is more often associated with the use of antibiotics by the mother in the second half of pregnancy or by a child during the formation of teeth.

    Yellowish-greenish staining develops with severe disorders of bilirubin metabolism and hemolytic (destruction of erythrocytes) states;

    Reddish staining of the enamel of the teeth is characteristic of the congenital malformation of the pigment-porphyrin exchange. This disease is called porphyria;

    Anomalies of the occlusion arise from the uneven growth of the jaws, due to the prolonged sucking of the nipple;
    Anomalies of the location of the teeth arise due to constitutional reasons (small jaw size), due to injuries, with congenital disturbance of connective tissue exchange, with tumors of the alveolar process of the jaw.

     Absence of teeth up to 1 year is extremely rarely associated with adentia  – the absence of their rudiments. To check the presence of dental germs, you can use a special method of radiovisiography to prescribe a pediatric dentist.
    Atypical situations.

    Timely, in a certain sequence, the growth of teeth indicates the normal development of the baby’s body. This is a physiological process and it is in direct connection with the overall health of the child. But we will consider some atypical situations, which can indirectly speak about the presence of pathology. However, only indirectly. Once again, we note that only a thorough investigation can confirm or disprove these assumptions.

    1) DelayThe duration of eruption (longer than 1-2 months from the norm) may be the result of rickets, an infectious disease, prolonged bowel dysfunction and changes in metabolism.
    2) Earlier teething (before 1-2 months before the norm) – may indicate endocrine disorders.
    3) Violation of the order , the absence of a tooth may also be the result of some anomalies in the health of the child (there are isolated cases when there are no even rudiments of the teeth) or be a consequence of the mother’s diseases during pregnancy.
    4) Teething of the tooth outside the arch of the tooth row can be caused by an incorrect position of the tooth axis (horizontal or oblique).
    5) Wrongthe formation of the tooth itself – size, shape, position, color, lack of enamel coating, etc. The causes of these phenomena should be analyzed by a specialist.
    6) The appearance of teeth before birth . Such situations are extremely rare. Such teeth prevent the baby from sucking the mother’s breast, usually they are removed.
    Here are some things that are worth remembering at the eruption of milk teeth:

    Regularly rub the face of the baby with a special towel to remove saliva and prevent irritation on the skin, it is better not to rub and gently salivate the saliva so as not to cause irritation around the mouth.
    Place a clean, flat tissue under the baby’s head to absorb the flowing saliva. When the napkin gets wet, you do not have to re-lay the sheet.

    Give the child something to chew on. Make sure that this is a big enough thing, so that the child will not swallow it and gnaw it into small pieces. Wet terry towel placed in the freezer for 30 minutes can be a good solution, just do not forget to wash it after each use. Special rings for eruption, which are sold in pharmacies, are also effective. If you use rings, do not freeze them in the freezer to the condition of the stone, so as not to damage the weak gums. Never tie the ring to the neck to the child so that it does not get tangled in the ribbon. Gently massage the baby’s gums with a clean finger.

     Do not put aspirin or other tablets on your teeth, do not rub alcohol-containing solutions into the gums. If your child is not feeling well, paracetamol can help in the infant’s dosage. BUT BEFORE TOTALLY CONSULT THE DOCTOR! 

    When the teeth appeared, they need to start taking care of them.

    For a child up to 1-1.5 years old, you can brush your teeth once a day with a special soft plastic brush (put on your mother’s finger). In this case, it is convenient to put the baby on his knees, his back to himself. The older baby can buy the first child’s toothbrush of convenient size, with strong bristles. At this age, children are happy to imitate adults, and the ritual of morning and evening brushing of teeth is fixed easily. It is clear that the baby is still playing tooth cleaning, and cleans them while your mother – it is most convenient to stand behind the baby in front of the mirror. Since two years, you can teach your baby to rinse his mouth with water (it’s good to do this every time after eating) and use baby toothpaste. You may have to try several pasta pastes before the new taste suits the baby.

    A mong other measures for the prevention of dental caries (milk teeth are more fragile than permanent ones and are affected in a shorter time!) – control the amount of sweets in the baby’s diet and the lack of sweet drink (juices, sweet water) at night and at night. 

    The first time to show the child a dentist needs a year. However, if something disturbs you – the broken order of teething, darkening of the tooth, the presence of stains on it, bad smell from the mouth, – contact a doctor as soon as possible. The health of the baby teeth is the key to the proper formation and health of the permanent.


    How to prevent tooth decay

    1. Do not lick the pacifier and do not try the baby’s spoon with a baby’s spoon. So you protect the baby’s mouth from the bacteria that are contained in the saliva of an adult.
    2. If possible, reduce the sugar content in a child’s diet. Offer water or natural juice instead of sweetened drinks and never give a sweet drink as a soporific at night.
    3. Accustom a one-year-old baby after a meal to drink a few sips of water, and after two years – rinse your mouth after eating.
    4. Regularly bring the child to the examination to the dentist. The first time it can be done in two years. If problems have occurred before, do not delay the trip to the doctor. Check the teeth of the child at least once every six months.
    5. Try to prevent tooth injuries. With damaged enamel, they are destroyed more quickly.
    Use a healthy menu to strengthen teeth crumbs. Include in the daily diet of the child 10 – 20 grams of hard cheese, several spoons of sea kale, 5 – 6 pieces of raisins, 1 – 2 dried apricots, green and black tea (rich in fluoride).
    6. The child should brush his teeth after each meal or at least twice a day, including always before bedtime.

    Teeth erupted? It’s time to clean

    Immediately after eruption, the child’s teeth are exposed to aggressive external influences. Germs settle on the teeth, forming a film of plaque. Acids are actively produced in dental plaque. Under their influence, the enamel of the baby teeth is easily destroyed, and a carious cavity is formed.

    The production of acid is particularly active in the presence of sugar. Therefore, the cause of caries in the first years of life often becomes an early transition to artificial feeding, especially if the child sucks for a long time the sweet milk mixture or juices from the horn.

    Start regular care of the oral cavity before the teething. With a moistened hygienic napkin, clad on a clean finger, gently rub the mucous membrane of the cheeks and gums. Recently cut incisors at first also wipe with a napkin.

    In the second year of life it’s time to start using the toothbrush. Today on sale there are special toothbrushes – they are small and have a particularly soft bristle. I can, for example, advise the brush “My first Colgate”. Funny bright toys that decorate the handle of this brush, will form a positive attitude to the child’s teeth cleaning.

     Up to two years, we recommend that parents clean the baby’s teeth with a damp toothbrush . Since two years you can start using toothpaste. It is best if it is a paste containing fluoride. It should be remembered, however, that a small child is prone to ingesting toothpaste during cleaning, so up to 6 years it is better to use baby toothpastes with a lower content of fluoride. For a single cleaning it is enough to use a small amount of fluoride toothpaste – the size of a pea.

     The risk of early development of caries is increased with insufficient fluoride content in drinking water.  This situation takes place, for example, in Moscow and St. Petersburg. Children between 2 and 14 years of age need compensation for the daily intake of fluoride into the body. The recommended daily intake of sodium fluoride in the form of tablets or drops should be determined for your child by a pediatrician or a children’s dentist.

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    2018 Baby Teething Advice for Mum and Guide with Infographic

    The timing of teething is an important, but not the only, issue that parents should be concerned about. If the pregnancy of the mother was not very successful, the baby’s process of mineralization of tissues could be disrupted. And then the tooth enamel will become fragile and tooth decay is not ruled out. In order to notice the problem in time, every new tooth should be shown to the doctor. Having found out the malfunction, – white or yellowish friable spots – he will take action.While the crumb does not turn 3,5 years old, his aching teeth are treated with minimally invasive (sparing) methods. After all, the kid is not yet able to fulfill the doctor’s requirements: for a long time remain still and keep his mouth open. Affected areas treated with ozone or silver, for a while they will put a “baby” seal. And only if the destruction has reached catastrophic proportions, they will change tactics and conduct therapy under general anesthesia.



    Prophylaxis of caries

    The risk of caries can be reduced by following the rules. It is important to ensure that the child does not have streptococcus in his mouth. Sometimes it passes from parents who are in the habit of licking bottle nipples or pacifiers that have fallen to the floor, trying to clear them of microbes. Do not eat up the child’s food from a child’s plate with a child’s spoon. Taking care of teeth crumbs, adults do not need to forget about the sanitation of their own mouth. Rational nutrition and vitamins also reduce the risk of caries, as well as the timely introduction of solid foods. The incised teeth should work, so Mom should not be too careful to grind dishes. With the appearance of four teeth, one should often offer the baby something to bite off, a crumb of baby biscuits, for example. Wrong nasal breathing is another cause for concern. When the mouth is constantly open,

    If the bite is formed with a defect that is not corrected, the permanent one will have the same drawbacks – one jaw protrudes forward, the second is recessed into the depth. As a result, children’s teeth can not close, which is why the process of chewing food is broken, and the baby is forced to swallow large pieces or, on the contrary, to grind foods to a liquid state. Both of these options can cause gastrointestinal diseases.

    But since up to 5 ~ 6 years, the jaws in children are growing very actively, then the problem can be solved with the help of preorthodontics devices. For children under 4 years old, vestibular plates from hypoallergenic silicone are suitable, which, moreover, also relieve harmful habits of sucking a nipple, a finger or keeping the mouth open. Kids older are shown to trainers – devices that change the configuration of the jaw arches. Time brackets – even more complex designs – comes closer to 9 years. But if the orthodontist sees that the malocclusion is progressing, he, carefully prepared, is at risk.

    At birth, the baby’s lower jaw is pushed back. If the baby in the process of growth will normally suck breast, then the muscles that control the jaw, “make” it to stand in place. After all, you can get milk only by stretching your lips forward, and with them, and jaws. The defect can not be corrected if the crumb is taken from the breast early and fed through the nipple with a too large aperture, from which the food instantly moves to the stomach, which causes the meal time to be shortened. A dentist who has noticed the problem on time will find a way to solve it.

    If the baby’s milk teeth are not lined up in an impeccable rank, then the permanent ones will get even worse. They are usually larger and require more space, displacing neighbors. When a new tooth takes the place of the previous two, the only thing left to do is to develop unsuitable territories in front or behind the dental arch. Missing the moment, parents doom the baby to a long correction, which does not always give a result. A tooth injury due to a fall or stroke can also break a Hollywood smile. There are several options: a fragment of the tooth breaks away, the milk can be knocked out or pounded. The latter case is most dangerous: the tooth “plunges” into the gums deeper than necessary, and can damage the rudiments of a permanent. In case of such injuries, contact the trauma center – after the X-ray the doctor will understand what to do.

     

    baby teething symptoms and remedies

    What is a bridle?

    This musculocutaneous fold is under the lips (upper and lower) and tongue. The latter affects the pronunciation of sounds. If it is shorter than necessary, the baby will not be able to correctly pronounce some of them. Bridles on the lips participate in the formation of the bite: powerful and wide, lying between the upper or lower incisors, prevent the teeth from closing. And in addition, they delay the gum and can cause the denudation of the roots of the teeth in the future. If the situation develops this way, the dentist will send the baby to the excision of the bridle. The operation is performed using a laser, preliminarily anesthetizing the place of manipulation. A similar procedure may be needed when installing brackets.

    How to clean children’s teeth ?

    This skill children master up to 7 years. And before that, parents should control the procedure.

    Its effectiveness depends on the choice of brush and paste. The first requirement is that they must correspond to age. Brushes differ in size and bristles – the softer it is, the better. Silicone is suitable only for infants, it replaces the gauze, fixed on the mother’s finger, which after feeding wipes the gums or the first tooth. Electric brush is better to use from 5 years: it cleans hard and is capable of injuring enamel. But if the treatment is to be done, the device helps to prepare the baby for the encounter with the drill, which also turns and makes noise. On the packaging of the paste is marked – from 0 to 3, from 3 to 5. Baby pastes do not contain preservatives, they have a minimum of fluoride and calcium. Others are not good, because they contain hazardous chemicals, which the baby can swallow.

    The dental floss is given to the child after 4 years, when densely standing teeth are slightly moved apart and spaces are formed between them, where food is clogged. The thread should be introduced by the parents, the fine motor skills of the crumbs are still imperfect, and it can damage the gum. For rinsing simple water or herbal infusions will do. Ready-made elixirs are not suitable, they contain many dangerous chemicals. The benefits of chewing gum should also not be forgotten: within 5 to 10 minutes after eating, they are necessary, as they provoke more salivation, creating good conditions for washing the teeth. If the baby chewing gum has a fill-out, do not worry. This means that she has served her age and needs to be replaced. True, the seals of good material do not age, they are enough to change teeth.

    When the baby turns 12 months old, his children’s teeth should be shown to the doctor every six months – if there are no problems, and every 3 months if they are available. If you do not pay attention and do not treat tooth decay, then, first, the affected tooth will collapse, and it will be removed. On the vacant place put conservator, otherwise an incorrect bite will form. And secondly, the infection can spread to the rudiments of permanent teeth. And everything will start again. The first permanent teeth are distant molars, which erupt in 4-5 years and are not dairy. They are necessary for a thorough chewing of food and the formation of the temporomandibular joint. They need to be cleaned especially carefully and more often to the dentist. He will determine the likelihood of caries and recommend the correct scheme of care and prevention.

    How many teeth do you already have?” Two? Just! And we already have four “- only you hear such statements in the polyclinic during the infants’ day. Mummies boast about the number of teeth their children have and are worried if the mouth is toothless.

    Most often, the first teeth erupt at the age of three to nine months. Run time, as you can see, is great. By the way, some dentists believe that the norm is three months-one year. If there is a bookmark of teeth, they will certainly cut through. Experiencing because of their absence is not worth it.

    Feedback from Mums

    – Yulya Kamaleeva
    The very first usually at the age of six months appear lower middle (central) incisors.

    In the eight to ten months, the upper median incisors are cut.

    In ten months, the teeth are “pierced” from below – the lower lateral incisors. Sometimes, at about the same time, the upper lateral incisors appear.

    After a short break in a year or a little later (up to sixteen months), the first large molars of the milk bite come.

    At sixteen to nineteen months, fangs erupt, and closer to two years – second molar molars, they occupy the fourth and fifth places in the milk bite.

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    -Zemfira Lutfullin
    It is very important to teach the baby to clean the teeth from the moment they appear. At first this will be done by my mother.

    To care for the first teeth, you can use special soft silicone brushes that are put on the mother’s finger. If there is not such a brush, you can simply wrap a finger with gauze and “walk” through the teeth.

    By two years, be sure to buy a brush, which the baby will clean the teeth himself. Although at this age children will still need the help of adults. Show the baby how to clean the teeth, ask to keep his brush on his own, and, holding it by the wrist or wrist, direct his actions.

    First you need to close the upper and lower teeth, and in small circular motions move the brush from the distant teeth to the front teeth: left, right, bottom, top.

    Then the mouth will need to open and clean the chewing surface of the teeth. Next – the most difficult stage for children – cleaning the inner surface of the teeth. Movement should be: from the gum – to the top of the tooth.

    Then the mouth needs to be rinsed. It is better for a small child to have a special glass for this purpose and pour boiled water there. Children swallow water by accident or just drink.

    It is very important to show the kids an example. Let them look when you brush your teeth. Tell me why it is necessary to do this and why it is so important to take care of your teeth from the very childhood.

    Baby Teeth: Frequently Asked Questions

    How late can baby teeth come in?
    3-7 months old
    Is it possible for a 2 month old to be teething?
    In rare case
    What age do children’s molars come in?
    6-7 years old
    How long does it take for a tooth to come in?
    1-15 days normally
    What can I give my baby for teething pain?
    Teether, hard food, spoon, rubbing gums with clean finger and giving cold things like icecream.
    How do you breastfeed a teething baby?
    Just like small baby without milk teeth
    Is it normal for a 2 month old to drool a lot?
    Yes drool a lot is normal.
    What are the first signs of teething?

    Swollen, bulging gums.
    Rubbing her face
    Drooling.
    Irritability.
    A tooth visible below the gum.
    Trouble sleeping.
    Trying to bite, chew, and suck on everything.
    Rejecting food.

    What age do kids get teeth?

    Tooth Eruption Chart
    Upper Teeth Tooth Emerges Tooth Falls Out
    Central Incisors 6-10 months of age 7-8 years of age
    Lateral Incisors 8-12 months of age 8-9 years of age
    Canines 16-20 months of age 11-12 years of age
    First Molars 11-18 months of age 9-11 years of age
    Second Molars 20-30 months of age 9-12 years of age

     

    Tooth Eruption Chart
    Lower Teeth Tooth Emerges Tooth Falls Out
    Central Incisors 5-8 months of age 6-7 years of age
    Lateral Incisors 7-10 months of age 7-8 years of age
    Canines 16-20 months of age 9-11 years of age
    First Molars 11-18 months of age 10-12 years of age
    Second Molars 20-30 months of age 11-13 years of age

    Is teething painful?
    Yes for many babies painful but for many of them just bearable pain.
    When should baby’s first tooth appear?
    Around 6 months of age
    Do teething babies sleep a lot?
    Yes its natural
    Do babies bite while teething?
    Yes they bite alot just because of irritation gum swollen.



    Why is my baby drooling so much?
    It’s Teething sign
    Do babies get diarrhea from teething?
    Yes its common.
    Do babies get a cough when teething?
    Yes its common
    How long do symptoms of teething last?
    around 2.5 years old
    When can I give my baby a teething biscuit?
    in between 3-6 months
    When can you give a baby a teething ring?
    When baby starts drooling and teething signs are clear
    What is the use of baby teether?
    To reduce irritation and help teeth come out by softening the gums.

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    Feeding a Baby or Eating a Child Needs to be Learned

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    Feeding needs to be learned | Baby Eating Food Wish of every Parent

    What is feeding and eating disorders?
    What are all the different types of eating disorders?
    What is a rumination disorder?
    What is a night eating syndrome?
    How common is rumination disorder?
    What is ruminative thinking?

    Toddler eating disorders overeating
    Does your toddler have an eating disorder
    Child eating disorders treatment

    Pediatricians and psychologists already report in infants and toddlers increasingly disturbed eating habits. But most guides and brochures only tell you what to eat. But not about the right how.

    Leon is 12 months old. A few weeks ago, he fidgeted while eating and ripped the spoon from his mother’s hand. He persistently refused to open his mouth. Desperately his mother tried to stuff at least half a glass spoonful into his mouth. Each meal became a torture for Leon and his mother. Finally, he completely refused the meals.

    Such and similar eating disorders show about 15-25 percent of all healthy infants and toddlers. They drink or eat very slowly, are extremely picky or throw the plate off the table. Many romp or negotiate with the parents about the portion to eat, others simply fall asleep while eating. If the parents find the situation difficult and stressful for at least one month, experts talk about a feeding disorder. In contrast to an eating disorder in older children and adults, the term feeding disorder illustrates that this is an interaction between child and parent. Because the relationship and communication with mother and father often plays a decisive role.

    The causes and symptoms of eating/feeding

    disorders

    The causes and symptoms of eating/feeding disorders are complex. Possible organic causes include acute illness, intolerance to certain foods or impaired oral motor skills. Non-organic reasons are much more difficult to grasp, ranging from the child’s temperament, to parental attachment disorders, to parental conflicts. The problems gradually build up or appear suddenly, for example, after illness, surgery or stress experiences such as separations. The children suddenly eat less, refuse to eat or vomit the meal.

     


    Preterm and underweight children are more likely to be affected by such disorders. If the baby drinks less, the parents quickly become afraid that their baby is not developing properly. Saturation signals of the child are not perceived or passed over. Distractions and tricks should help to increase the amount of drink and food. Ultimately, this means that the infant is forced to drink. The child reacts with refusal to eat. A vicious circle begins.
    “As a rule, the child denies food offered to achieve something pleasurable or to avoid something unpleasant,” explains Beatrice Cosmovici, psychological assistant at the Children’s Center Munich. For example, try to give the child more attention or favorite food. Or it responds to the forced feeding of food or an emotionally strained feeding situation with rejection. “The mother does everything to overcome the denial by distracting, playing the clown, feeding with pressure or coercion, or even bringing out the favorite food,” says Cosmovici, who advises parents on feeding disorders. A feeding disorder becomes necessary at the latest when weight loss and failure to thrive aggravate the situation. In extreme cases, this can lead to savage.

    Compulsion while eating or feeding aggravates the problems

    Well over one third of all parents find their children’s eating habits problematic, at least in the short term. Most of these are temporary problems, such as appetite fluctuations or aversions that are quite normal. What matters is how parents interpret and respond to the child’s behavior in this situation. Behind the sentence, “My child does not want to eat,” almost always hides: “My child does not eat what I want or not as much as I expect.” Most parents are highly motivated to feed their baby healthily. They inform themselves and seek support in the countless guidebooks on baby and toddler nutrition. They are primarily dedicated to what, how much and at what time.

    For example, breastfed children often do not accept solid food and spoon feeding until eight months or later. Many mothers are confused: the baby is not behaving according to plan, the child of the friend drinks much more and the doctor determines that the weight is in the lower range. This puts the parents under pressure, which they pass on to the child while feeding. The well-intended intention makes it easy to forget that with every sip and every bite that goes into the mouth against a “no”, something is imposed on the child. Also, any play and distraction in eating ultimately leads to manipulating the child and overcoming the rejection. Every kind of coercion and pressure takes on the desire, bit by bit, to even deal with the food. The confidence

    Every Child Eats Differently

    How different the amount that a baby needs to grow and thrive can be seen from an investigation by the Research Institute for Child Nutrition in Dortmund. After that, some babies drink 600 milliliters of milk per day, while others need more than 900 milliliters at the same age. Any comparison with other children about appetite and amount of food says so nothing about the thriving of your own child. Instead, parents should look at how satisfied and active the offspring is. Whether weight and height develop in the normal range, the pediatrician can assess in the context of the usual preventive care. Weighing in everyday life is unnecessary and unsettled only.
    The attitudes to food that parents have internalized are inevitably reflected in their behavior towards the child. If they control their own eating habits strongly, they will also transfer that to their child. If they are predominantly on the go and eat irregularly, the child can not get used to regular mealtimes. Not infrequently, the toddler gets the plate put down, while the mother tidies up the kitchen or the father turns on the TV.

    Relaxed discover the food | Baby feeding problems and

    solutions

     

    child eating disorders and remedy

    If a child is chattering and eating while eating, there may be too much unrest in the room. Create a relaxed atmosphere while eating without time pressure.
    Do not feed casually. Your child learns the food best when eating together at the family table.
    Some kids just like lumpy food. I am sure, they can perceive food better.
    Leave the spoon to your child if they want to eat, even if more is wrong at first than walking in the mouth. This promotes desire and independence while eating.
    Never put a spoon into your child’s mouth if it does not open it voluntarily. Your child decides if and how much it will eat from the offer.
    If your child rejects a particular food, just accept it. Offer the food a few days or weeks later, possibly prepared differently, again.

    Persuade and never force your child to eat. That reinforces the dislike.

    It is difficult to resist a whining child, let alone to survive a fit of rage calmly and determinedly without yielding. This requires your own conviction, security and a healthy dose of serenity. If such situations occur, then some mothers will soon be at the end of their power. This reinforces the tendency to give the little ones what they just feel like doing. To respect the child with his wishes and needs does not mean to give in to his will and desire in every moment. Children need rules and structures prescribed by their parents in order to find their way around. It is important to be clear about who is responsible for what while eating.Feeding disorders in infants and toddlers diagnosis and treatment is also similar to this.

    Children decide how much they eat

    The parents determine what, when and how to come to the table. The child may choose freely from the offer. It decides if and how much it eats. This means that the parents choose the food, determine the quality of the food and the time when it is served. Even toddlers can be expected to wait a while for food. But to be responsible for the selection also means the compromises that the parents grant themselves and other family members, as well as the youngest member of the family. If the parents do not want their child to eat hazelnut cream and sausages, they should not even buy such products.

    The nutritional habits and the eating habits of the parents or the family provide the playing field, in the demarcation of which the offspring can discover their own taste preferences. If the parents themselves have breakfast, lunch and dinner, they automatically bring their child to regular meals. The best way should be wholesome food such as potatoes, vegetables, whole grains & Co. for the whole family on the table. It will also be much easier for worried parents to accept their child’s choice. Parents can trust their child to take whatever they need.
    Today, Leon sits expectantly at lunch in a high chair at the table. The rest of the family has gathered for dinner. Instead of a glass of food, Leon prefers to eat what the big ones get. With much peace and patience, his mother has managed to relieve him of the pressure of eating and to provide a relaxed atmosphere at the dining table.

    Parents need to have division of responsibility in child feeding practices.

     

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    2018 Sleeping Issues, Disorders and Solution with Infographic

    Sleep problems and solutions

    What is Sleep?

    Sleep is state of body and condition of mind in which normally all intentionally controlled motor parts of living things become inactive with the relaxation of nervous system. Like eyes closed, arms and legs are relaxed. It is a form of mind in which consciousness nearly suspended and helps the muscles and organs to ease after hours of utilization.

    Sleep Issues:

    In generally we can easily categories sleep issues under following Sleep DISORDERS:

    List of sleep disorders:

    Sleep Deprivation
    Hypersomnia: Excessive Daytime Sleepiness
    Sleep Apnea
    Sleepwalking
    Trouble Falling Asleep
    Insomnia
    Snoring
    Night Sweats
    Sleep Paralysis
    Talking in Your Sleep
    Excessive Sleeping
    REM Sleep Disorder

    How can I solve my sleeping problems?
    How can I fix sleeping problems?
    What should you do if you can’t sleep?
    What are the most common types of sleep disorders?
    What is Kleine Levin Syndrome?
    Why do I keep waking up after 4 hours of sleep?
    Can you be tired but not sleepy?
    How do you fall asleep in 5 minutes?
    What makes you fall asleep fast?
    What is the 4 7 8 breathing technique?
    Can you be too tired to go to sleep?
    How can I sleep better naturally?

    Writing helps

    Does Writing Help You Sleep Better?

    The common reason for the inability to fall asleep at night is worry. Worry keeps us awake. We cannot stop thinking about the unpaid bills, project deadlines and other unfinished work. This leads to inability to sleep and stressful sleep. Studies suggest that there is an effective solution to this problem. If you maintain a journal about your night time thoughts, it helps you to get a lot of stress out of your mind and helps you to have a sound sleep. Writing has a deep connection with lessening stress and anxiety.

    What should you write about in your night journal?
    Should it be your accomplishments or your pending works?

    Psychologists think that people, who write their to-do lists at night, fall asleep earlier than those who write about their achieved tasks of the day. We have a lot of thoughts circling our minds throughout the day. Physically writing those thoughts of paper have a magical way to reduce that load a bit. It helps your mind to relax and offload a little bit. This offloading clears your mind of pressurizing thoughts and helps you fall asleep.

    When you have tasks that are unfinished, they occupy more space in your mind than tasks that are completed. When you think about it, you often remember your to-do lists more than your accomplishments. These to-do lists are a source of stress that keeps you awake at night. They bug you consistently than your completed tasks. This pile of unfinished schedule is difficult to set aside especially at night when your mind replays all the thoughts of the day. When you write these thoughts down, they get off your mind for the night and help you relax and fall asleep.
    Writing down a list of your unachieved tasks not only help you fall asleep earlier but it also lessens the number of times you wake up at night. When you have got a lot on your mind you keep waking up at odd times at night and also tend to wake up earlier in the morning. A writing journal helps you have a sound sleep throughout the night and make you sleep a little bit longer. This strategy if true for the days when you have a lot on your plate. But certainly there will be times when your to do list is a bit shorter than usual. This list encourages and motivates you to complete your tasks the next day without delay. It also helps to improve your memory and freshens your mind for the next day.
    When you sleep tired, you wake up tired. And this tiredness affects all your next day’s work and prevents you from performing well in your work. Bedtime writing has a deep connection with sound sleep. If you cannot practice it daily, practice it often. Relieve your mind of these stressful thoughts. It is good for your overall health too. You will not only fall asleep earlier but will wake up the next morning fresh and competent to face your next challenges.

     

     

    sleep issues and solutions
    sleeping problems solutions

     

    Solution to all the sleep problems:

    1- Before going to bed wash hands, face, neck, arms till elbow and feet.
    2- Start your Sleep on the right side
    3- Plan next day routine in mind

    That’s it you are already in sleep

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    10 Kinds of Mother-In-Law: How to Get Along With Mom In Law

    how to deal with a horrible mother in law

    10 Types of Mother in Law to Prepare Yourself

    for:

    A wedding is one of the happiest events in a couple’s life. But with her husband every woman “gets” and his family. Many are horrified at the thought of having to contact their mother-in-law. But all people are different, and it is important to understand that you can find an approach to any person without using aggressive methods.


    All About Mum In Law:

    Let’s find out which mother-in-law you have and will approach the problem of your communication.

    1. Mother-in-law – Dictator

    Such a mother-in-law lives under the motto: “Dominate, dominate, humiliate”. She was used to the fact that everything always goes according to her rules, which she alone sets. Therefore, immediately after the wedding, she begins to establish her own orders in your home.

    how to deal with mother in law

    These mother-in-law are very fond of and are able to create intrigues, and masterfully “put in place.”

    Distinctive features of the mother-in-law dictator:

    – her own authority above all else, no one else recognizes;

    – Each of her phrases begins with the words: “how much I told you …”;

    – does not consider it necessary to knock, coming to you, also does not say goodbye when he leaves.

    How to get along with such a mother-in-law:

    1) It is very difficult, but vital. Get rid of the negativity accumulated in the soul, because the calmer your health will be, the easier it will be to communicate with your husband’s mother.

    2) Write down on paper all the actions of your mother-in-law that annoy you. In a calm environment, discuss with your husband all that bothers you. Do not try to put your mother-in-law in a bad light, and yourself in good. Do not use in the conversation phrases like “your mother”, it is better to say “mother.”

    Try to say the type “let’s ask my mother to warn us in advance about her arrival, so that she, and we were comfortable.”

    3) In communication with the mother-in-law, let her know that you respect and love her, appreciate her advice. Tell her that it would be nice that she warned you in advance about her intention to come. It is necessary politely to let her know that the son is already an adult, and he has his own family.

    First time, most likely, she will scandal, perhaps even will be hysterical, but if you are adamant, she will see and understand your cultural attitude and will respect you.

     

    2. The mother-in-law – the spy

    As a rule, this is a divorced woman. She does not want to give her blood in your hands, so she will be engaged in even eavesdropping and spying, may arrange surveillance for you to catch a daughter-in-law in something shameful. All that in your pair will cause jealousy and distrust is her weapon.

    mother in law problemDistinctive features of mother-in-law-spy:

    – He follows you and tells his son where, when and with whom you met;

    – likes to make different sets and traps for the “beloved” daughter-in-law.

    How to get along with such a mother-in-law:

    1) In this case, you need to act in two ways: to convince your husband of your devotion and help your mother-in-law to love you.

    2) Such women tend to have a deep sense of loneliness, they do not have a large family, which they always so wanted to have. They do not feel understood, they seem to be deprived. Give her the attention she needs.

    3) If you see that her main goal is to divorce you and her husband, then tell your spouse about all the wiles that she is building, give proof. If you can prove it to your husband, then he will go over to your side and begin to treat the actions of your mother with greater caution.

     

    3. The mother-in-law – “Analytical”

    This is the most dangerous kind of mother-in-law. Such a mother-in-law thinks: “I fed him, I raised him, I did not sleep at night, he treated his snot, and she came to everything ready and wants to deprive me of everything!”.


    mother-in-law problemsDistinctive features of the mother-in-law are:

    – likes to say that the mother and son are forever connected by the umbilical cord, and the daughter-in-law is so …;

    – she raised a child alone, without the help of her father, fed, washed, watered, and then you appeared. What for?

    How to get along with such a mother-in-law:

    1) Remember that for such a mother-in-law you will always be bad, and everything connected with you will be bad too. She will check your closets, watch how you washed things, look for dust on the shelves. She will find fault with it, even if you are an ideal hostess.

    2) Try to have a sincere conversation with your husband, even if he is to some extent a mama’s son. Say something like this: “You have a caring and good mother, but we often misunderstand each other, of course you should take care of her, see him, visit, but please, for the sake of general comfort, do it on her territory.”

    Saying this, you will present yourself to the husband of a reasonable woman in comparison with the fussy mother-in-law, and will be able to help him not to rush between you two.

    How to get along with my mother-in-law

     

    4. Business mother-in-law

    To some extent you can be considered a lucky one, because such a mother-in-law is the most neutral type.

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    Distinctive features of business-in-law:

    – for her career in the first place, so you will not bother her;

    – “I have enough of my own affairs, I have no time to do yours.”

    How to get along with such a mother-in-law:

    It’s very easy to get along with such a mother-in-law, however, remember that you should not count on it in matters of help with children or in some other of your affairs.

    5. Mother-in-law’s ally

    Such a mother-in-law believes that only she can help you to escape from mistakes.

    Distinctive features of the mother-in-law of the ally:

    – this is the most insidious type of mother-in-law, because she will be your girlfriend exactly until the first quarrel with her husband;

    – To her for the joy of intervening in your conflict, imposing your point of view and upsetting family happiness, turning everything upside down.


    How to get along with such a mother-in-law:

    1) Remember that you must deal with your family problems and conflict situations. Therefore, if you feel pressure from your mother’s mom, openly tell her that you do not want to live by someone else’s mind, but want to stuff your bumps, learn by trial and error, etc.

    2) It is not necessary to talk with her in talking to her, that you yourself will understand, this phrase will only set it against you.

    6. Whimsical mother-in-law

    Such a mother-in-law constantly wails that she did everything for her son, and he is so ungrateful. Such a mother can not move from her place without her son, or go to the polyclinic for food. It’s her style to call you at night and say she’s dying.

    And when the son at the speed of light will fly to the rescue, he learns that my mother just has a headache or legs. At the same time, if he only hints about something, he will hear in response thousands of reproaches and reproaches.


    Distinctive features of capricious mother-in-law:

    – she is a real actress, skillfully plays sick and hysterical;

    – favorite phrases in her arsenal: “you’re as selfish as your father”, “you’ll regret when I die!” etc.

    How to get along with such a mother-in-law:

    1) Blackmail works in all cases only when it is allowed to work, so get clear rules.

    2) Tell your mother-in-law that you, for example, can come to her twice a month, bring food, help around the house, etc. But, unfortunately, you do not have more time. Of course, at first she will be offended, but after a while she will see. Try to tell her why you will not be able to visit her more often. Tell her that her husband is tired and that he needs free space.

    How to get along with her husband’s mom

    7. Forever young mother-in-law

    She looks great, and she does not like being called grandmother.

    Distinctive features of an eternally young mother-in-law:

    – she likes spending money on maintaining her beauty and youth, she looks much younger than her years;

    – believes that if she already has grandchildren, then life is over, and she begins to grow old quickly.

    How to get along with such a mother-in-law:

    As often as possible, make her all kinds of compliments – this is a guarantee of excellent relations between you.

    8. Ideal mother-in-law

    There are very few of them, but they exist!

    Distinctive features of an ideal mother-in-law:

    – she gladly takes you into the family;

    – in the case of conflict situations with her husband, she takes the part of the blame, because this is her upbringing.

    How to get along with such a mother-in-law:

    In order for the relationship between you to be good, it is enough not to forget about the mother of your husband, to visit her and show signs of attention.

    About my mother-in-law



    9. The dense mother-in-law

    With such a mother, it’s better not to argue with her husband, because she grew up in a certain era, and you will not be able to re-educate her. It is likely that she does not recognize technical innovations, boils things and starch tablecloths, washes disposable packages and dries them on the balcony, and also does many things that look strange in the modern era.

    Distinctive features of a drowsy mother-in-law:

    – she is very old-fashioned;

    – often he likes to say: “but in our time …”.

    How to get along with such a mother-in-law:

    Do not argue with her, nod your head during the conversation, without expressing your point of view actively. Just do as you see fit.

    10. Mother-in-law is not a real grandmother

    She tells you that she has already gone through a difficult path of motherhood, so now she will teach you all the tricks that you would never know if it were not for her. He shows a desire to lead the process of education of grandchildren, but does not take concrete participation.

    The distinctive features of a fake grandmother:

    – gives a million tips for raising a child, because only she knows the best;

    – do not expect real help from her, she does not show a desire to take a walk with the child, take him out of school or kindergarten, her “help” only in words.


    How to get along with such a mother-in-law:

    1) Gently tell her that you will not follow her instructions, without forgetting to give explanations.

    2) If your mother-in-law does not live with you in the same territory, then you can use the technique of hidden failure. Answer her advice, thank her, but in the end, do it your own way.

    3) Try to avoid the direct answer more often, answering something like “thank you for advice, I will definitely take note of them, some may use it, because my husband and I must decide together.”

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    Current Teenage Slangs Words 2018 Decoded & Infographic

    Slangs Words

    Most CommonTeenage Slang Words 2018

    Slang is the informal teenage language that is more popular in speaking than in writing.  It is the new way of speaking of the young adults that has been quite a trend for a few decades. It consists of a vocabulary often times unknown to the adults.  The slang is created by sometimes recycling the old words, making abbreviations or giving new meaning to the already existing words . Some of these slang examples have found their way into the English dictionaries. There are also dictionaries for slang language available online. This is the way languages are revolutionized. Who knows that the words we call slang today may become part of the regular English someday and may come into writing as well.





    Here is a list of some trending slang words among teens now a days. This may help the adults to decipher the foreign language of their teenagers and not be in a state of total disillusionment.

    Teenage Slang Words New List:

      1. Fam: Fam is the short form for the world family. It is used to associate those who are dear and close to you like a family. It can also mean a close friend who is like family.
      2. Sus: it is the short form for the word suspicious or suspect.
      3. Thirsty: it means to want or need someone or something desperately.
      4. OG: it means original gangsta. But it is used for someone who is quite popular and famous among the group or at school. It is used in a positive way as a sign of respect.
      5. Throw shade: its meaning is quite opposite from its literal one. It means to disrespect someone.
      6. Bruh: this is the slang for bro or brother.
      7. Dope: it means awesome. It has got nothing to do with drugs. Dope is used for something that you really like and something that is excellent.


    1. Finna: it is a replacement for fixing to or going to.
    2. Roasted: this means to argue with someone verbally to the extent that they are somewhat defeated in your quick tongue battle.
    3. Lit: this means amazing or awesome, something that is exciting and wild.

     

     

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     So from this list and info graphics, Parents need to know the trends in 2018 for Teen Slang Terms to Keep an Eye on. Fun and Harmless Teenage Slang are good but hurtful and personality destructive slang phrases should be checked.   


    This slang trend has been there since the 80’s. Teens are always known to invent their own code words and phrases that have today become slang and later added in urban dictionary. Some are abbreviations like LOL or YOLO whereas others are small phrases that have very different meanings like ‘eat my shorts’ or ‘kill me’. These practices are how the languages are revolutionized and progress.



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    Parenting Advice For Adolescent Raising | How To Deal With Teenagers

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    Raising Teenagers

    Why Teenagers Shouldn’t Compare Themselves to Their Parents?

    It is a very natural behavior for our teenagers to compare themselves to parents. Parents act as a guide for adolescent in new situations. This is true and fruitful for happy families. But unfortunately, when neglected or abused teenagers grow up to be parents, they try to act completely opposite of what their parents acted. They constantly compare themselves to their parents’ and try to be better for their children than their parents. While we all learn from our parents’ experience and mistakes, and try not to repeat them on our own children, but comparison is many a times harmful than we think.


    When adult kids compare themselves to parents, they become overly indulged in the competition and as a result it is their child’s needs that suffer. These parents do not think about the needs of their children. Rather they constantly try to be better than their parents. For example, a child who did not spend much time with his father in his childhood because of any reason, will try hard to spend time to his own child. Because he led a deprived life, he certainly doesn’t want his child to suffer the way he did. But is he right in doing so? He is right only if he does not compare himself to his own dad. When he gets into comparison, his only motive is to give more time to his son than his father gave to him. He is only doing it because he wants to be better than his father and not because his child needs that time. Instead of letting your child decide how much he wants you, your motives are guided by comparisons to your past.

    Children who are raised by abusive parents, often lose sight of their own needs and desires. All they do is assess the behavior of their parents. What they will do next? How will they react to a certain situation? What will make dad happy? What will make mom drink? Children raised in such circumstances are unaware of the fact that they too have needs. Their desires are sacrificed because of the large focus on the parent. These children when grow up and become parents do not want their children to suffer the fate they themselves did. As a result, they strive to make their own behavior different to their parents and forget about the needs of their children.

    The best approach is to learn through feedback. Look at how your children respond to your actions and then alter your behavior according to their needs and wishes. There is no manual for parenting, you can only learn through experience and the reaction of your kids. If your kids want more time from you than you give them, then make an effort to be available for them. Regardless of the fact that you already are giving them more time than your dad. These simple changes in your parental approach will give your children a childhood you always dreamed of.


    Sadly, the parents who draw comparisons with their own parents in the hope of being better than them, eventually become like them. Since their focus is only to better than their parents. They do not understand that they have to become better for their children as well. When they compromise the needs of their children, they unknowingly are giving their children the same miserable life they had. The constant comparison leads to the buildup of similarities. And children always remember the incidences of abuse and neglect more than the parents. It is therefore better to take help from the feedback of your children and stop making comparisons constantly.

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    Mom Artwork: Raising Emotionally Intelligent Child with Art Work (Drawing, Painting, Animation)

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    The Importance of Art in Developing Kids

    Creativity

    We have heard a lot, people sayings “Why should we study art or why children should emphasis on arts? Mostly parents believe that children should mainly focus on mathematics, Science or Commerce etc. in schools and art is just an enjoyment time for little brains. Art is useless won’t get you anywhere and so on.

    There are many schools where now a day’s situation of the school board planning is to reduce energy and time for arts in schools. Based on recent wave of technological mindset and thinking process that students won’t do well in their future technical education if diverted towards other fields. Well we would be surprised to know that, now science and psychology proved that  Art is mandatory ingredient in developing creativity in kids!  Art makes a huge positive and innovative impact in our lives!

    Now the questions rise,  what is Art? What are the different types of art? 

    Art is a mean of reflecting or expressing imagination in any form like drawing, animation, painting, architecture, calligraphy, computer graphic design, illuminated manuscript, photography or video creations etc.

    Arts Education likes Poetry and the Visual Arts, Develop Emotional Intelligence drastically especially in children when they are more curious to learn everything as a normal human brain learning cycle.

     

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    Art is helping millions of other people you want to see how?

    6 Reasons Why the Arts Are Important In Our

    Lives

    1. Arts develop innovative skills.
    2. Arts improve analytical thinking skills.
    3. Arts release stress and boost emotional intelligence.
    4. Arts boost self-confidence and positivity.
    5. Arts help us to express our emotions beautifully
    6. Arts foster new ideas which is required for leadership

    Why kids must be encouraged to do painting?

    Our little dreamers love to express what’s in their mind. This visual colorful way of articulating is the easy one they love.  Painting is not only a simple activity but it’s much more than that. It opens up mind’s ability to create, to ponder, to find answers of the queries hence increasing utilizing of right part of the brain which is primarily designed for creativity and innovation by nature. It is a technique for children to show themselves in their own special way. Painting also assists kids to use their senses, explore ideas, and express emotions in colors. The paintbrush develops self-confidence in artist when they get appreciation. When a child does painting, both sides of his / her brain get involved, establishing the linking between two hemispheres.

    From now on when your child brings a self-painted picture at home, Not to forget involve in it , ask questions from the painting and appreciate. Remember Art is a language and that painting is one type of art that helps children grow emotionally, mentally, physiologically, and spiritually.

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    Now when we have come to know that  the biggest benefit of Art or painting is development of Emotional Intelligence especially in kids.  So lets see this

    What is emotional intelligence (EQ) and why it

    is important?

     

    EQ is the capability to be conscious aware of knowing emotions, get control over their expressions and to handle beautifully interpersonal relationships sensibly and compassionately. We can improve our emotional intelligence, make our relationships awesome, and accomplish our career goals. That’s what every parent want for their children to develop soft skills such that their kids become integral part of successful society with key positive contributing roles.

    Emotional intelligence (EQ) is one known the most important traits of one’s personality. Just imagine if parents would be able to raise their kids with high EQ by using drawing, painting or other visual, non-visual Arts right from the beginning.  Following three skills also improve with EQ.

    Knowing Yourself: Parents who are self-awaked and have strong intellect of self-awareness, they can raise great kids who can lead the nations in future as those parents understand their own strengths and weaknesses, as well as how their upbringing should be. Parents who are self-aware can normally handle situations better and learn from surroundings especially constructive criticism than who are not.

    Self-regulation: After self-awareness one trait that is differentiator between great parents and just being parents is self-regulation. It is such an effective skill that parents and kids can use to increase overall performance, regardless of capability. Self-regulation is a skill developed after a lot of practice and self-actualization by that we become responsible of our own knowledge seeking, observing our behavior, advancement and making amendments from idea to implementation.

    Motivation: It is observed that all parents who are self-motivated they also have ability of Emotional intelligence. Such parents are not motivated just by title or money rather they show strength and hopefulness even during difficult situations.

     In This Life, Emotional Intelligence Rules and

    That is Fostered by Art